Here is something worth my remembering, especially when the heat is on: self-justification tends to destroy all that's fair (i.e. good, wonderful, treasured.) Why? Because when Self rises up to claim its rights, God is being ignored,
at best, and probably even usurped. And since God is the source of all good (James 1:17) haughty self assertion precludes happiness.
Now, how to remember that when I think I've been accused or misunderstood... That's the hard part. Maybe that will be fodder for a later blog... Hey! I think I have an idea. Maybe it would make a good T-shirt:
HAUGHTY SELF-ASSERTION PRECLUDES HAPPINESS!
Nah. I'm not wide enough.